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I don't know about y'all, but its like the moment after we said "I do" this huge burdon of popping out babies is put on your shoulders. All of a sudden I feel as though I should be nesting, or joining a mommy group, or something along those lines. It's not only the pressure that comes from others, but the pressure I put upon my myself. 
You may ask why in the world I would want to hurry up and put my body through such a traumatic experience, and the honest to goodness answer is I have no idea! The reality is I actually 100% do not want babies yet. I want to sleep in, go to the movies without a sitter, and enjoy MY TIME!  
So the question remains... Why oh Why do I have baby fever???
Does anyone have answers? Comments? Advice on waiting? Advice on going for it? 


This article has 10 things to do before you have kids, which I absolutely love! 

http://www.beliefnet.com/Love-Family/Relationships/10-Things-to-do-Before-You-Have-Kids.aspx?p=5&utm_campaign=GlobalScope&utm_medium=paid_distribution&utm_source=JesusChristPageDesktopBeforeKidsPromoJune

This one is 10 reasons having babies in your 20s rocks...
http://thestir.cafemom.com/baby/155034/10_reasons_having_babies_in

I would love to hear what all of you think! 

Comments

  1. Woot woot! Love this ... I think it's becoming more of a norm to not have kids in your twenties! We have so much life to live! Kids are such a blessing but I definitely agree with you that sleeping in and going to the movies anytime you want is so nice!

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